He is sending mixed signals! What should I do?

I am from a well off, prominent family. I am not a bad looking either (some people, men especially, declared me a great beauty, but just attractive will do to me). My mother and I were asked to visit a very wealthy local landowner, a Mr Rochester. There were many other people there, quite a big company, many of them I knew from my childhood. It was evident that Mr Rochester was smitten with me at once. I quite liked him, too. He is not handsome, and I told him so directly - I am an honest girl - but I do not want to be with someone handsome anyway. All these pretty young men, absorbed in care about their pretty faces, and their white hands, and their small feet; as if a man had anything to do with beauty! I am good looking, and this will be enough for two. A man should posses strength and valour, and that is that. In short, my ideal man is exactly like Mr Rochester, who is strong, athletic, with a rather ...ugly face, but I do not care. All the time we were together he paid special attentions to me. We once played charades, and I was a bride, and he played a groom, and afterwards he said, jokingly, that I was his because "we were married an hour since, in the presence of all these witnesses". I play piano and sing, he sings, and we spent a lot of time together, singing duets. He did many more things to make me understand that he was into me. In short, I thought he was in love with me. We went back home, and I expected that he would come to visit at once, but he never did. I don't understand why, he was so taken with me, and could not spend a minute without me. I heard that he even bought a new vehicle and hinted that it was for a woman he loved, and how he wanted to marry soon. Yet he does not call or write! What should I do?