Scene hair/makeup ?s.?

well i have my hair a coppery brown red with a copperry red orange high lights and then under neath my hair is brownn and i have layerrs and my hair goes right above my shoulder i flat iron every day bc its curly but how do i teasee my hair to make it more scene so its big on topp? andd makeupp? how do i applyy eyeshadow and eyelines btw i want my eyes to look scene with thick eyeliner but i dont want my eyes looking small i want them to look as big as they cann??? and wat about blushh? thankks will choose best questionn!and what color shirts will look good with my hair color and my hair is dull how to make it shiny?thanks byeee!